Today, the situation, when the first day of dating often ends with sex , has become almost commonplace. The availability of sex has turned a blind eye to the dangers that such a relationship can bring. Yes, in a sense, this is an adventure, but the consequences can be far from joyful, as experts warn us about. Today we have collected the main myths that many women believe in agreeing to a sudden connection.
Myth 1. If he is sick, it will be noticeable.
Sexual infections only in rare and advanced cases manifest themselves outwardly, in other cases you will never guess about the “bouquet” that a random partner can bestow on you. But a rare man goes to a party with a certificate and shows it to a girl he likes. Even the coolest looking men who are outwardly far from asocial personalities can be carriers of a dangerous disease. You should not rely on the word of honor of a man who whispers pleasant words to you all evening, pushing you to a free room – do not be fooled.
Myth # 2. “Shouldn’t a man be concerned about safety?”
Almost every woman is sure that any man offering sex must take a condom with him. But here’s the thing: the man, in turn, is sure that the woman is drinking “magic pills.” As a result, both turn out to be unprepared for solitude, but rarely will anyone agree to give up the connection. As a result of such unprotected contact – a ticket to a venereologist. If a man refuses to go to the pharmacy for contraception and desperately insists on intimacy, give up such an “adventure”, because your health is more important than fleeting pleasure.
Myth 3. It will be immediately clear if I get infected
Again, we cannot agree. Even if once you managed to avoid infection or not get pregnant, no one can guarantee that the next casual sex will not “misfire”. Sometimes sex with a regular partner becomes boring, forcing the soul mate to look for entertainment on the side in full confidence that these adventures will go unnoticed. As a result, both the “adventurer” and his constant partner become infected, and both may not even know about it. You do not need to put yourself and your loved one in such danger, and therefore even if you are not a couple, casual sex should always be safe.